Privet Armen,
(is that nice enough?:))
I perfectly agree that the things that I mentioned are absolutely natural for any person to want in life. That's exactly why I mentioned them. Somehow I got the impression that you like to trash society. You said:" Btw, why to control urself instead of acting like u desire (the society ate u). Why to behaive as society want you to?"
All this bulshit about"the society ate you" is ridiculous. The society ate me just as it ate anybody on this planet except for those that live in the jungle and are nursed by wolves. Don't you agree?!Maybe I will understand better if you explain how exactly do you plan to fight with the society? Speculating about fighting the society and actually fighting it are 2 different things. Moreover,I don't want to fight with an abstract concept called society that is nothing but a mass of people like you and me that form this society that you dislike so much and want to fight. Isn't it fighting yourself? I think it is.
If you talk to some of my friends you will get an idea that I never pay attention to what other people, that don't care about, will be whispering or yelling about me.I confront my enemies openly and don't play behind somebody's back. Don't get me wrong, I am not trying to offend people by walking around and calling everybody jerks. You really have to piss me off to get the truth straight to your face. And for me it is the freedom of speech, being able to say what I think to anybody. Plus I am not the type of person that will be avoiding the person that I don't like and hiding my true feelings. I am not walking around looking for a fight, but I am not going to tuck my tail between my legs and walk away from the situation where I am being confronted or offended. I don't think that telling somebody in the face what I think about this person means giving labels, in my world it means telling what I think, not what others expect me to.To me it means freedom.
Of course, I agree that we are limited in our livies and believe me I am feeling it more than anyboy else because of all the restrictions posed on me as a foreigner in the US. But I think it all about the inner freedom that I feel within myself and according to which I act in my life.

Всех-всех поздравляю с Новым годом ,с Рождеством, а некоторых - с рождением. Желаю, чтобы было всегда по-вашему, а не по-ихнему. И удачи!!!

Hi Yu! (Btw, sometimes it's nice to say "hi" to the person you are talking with or it's some new "slang fashion" in America?? :))
1.Are you sure "rebellion" means to live in misery and to eat shit and to fuck dogs (not girls)? Me-not. All the aspects you mentioned - are natural wishes for normal person. Did I say that it's bettet to live in the carton boxes under the bridge to fight with the society??? You did not get the point.

2. Not society limits you BUT YOU DO IT YRSELF!!!
Are you so naive to think that you will choose whatever you want to do without turning around and check what the "neighbours" will say???
3. ....to be limmited and to control....No, it's not two diff thing but the same one has two diff descriptions - one to describe yr behavior (not to critisize yrself) and the second is honesty one:))

4. To tell smbd that he's a jerk (even if he really is)..... yeah, it's a great feat :)) Is ability to insult smbd is index for you to show the inner freedom of person? Exuse me, but I think vice versa - if you are really "independent" - it's of no need to give a label to the person a "jerk" - everybody knows that he is a jerk without yr explanations, if you don't like him - try not to meet him at all, but to outrage is not a way to follow, I think.
Most of people (and me too:) are so limited that they can not realize that they are!

Exuse me if I don't get yr thoughts rigth-pls try to explain more minutely :))

Happy new year and Merry X-mas!!!
Btw, what X-mas for u is more important now (I mean catholic or orthodox)???
C U

Max,
Happy New Year! Greater, better, cooler site to you from Snake and Capricorn in one American woman :))
Btw, I voted for you too several times. So you'd better appreciate it. Haha!

Слышь - у тебя крыша протекает - снег падает в дом. Залатай, а то я уже простудился у тебя тут.
И тебя с ними же (праздниками), а за Лебовски- грех не проголосовать - ведь настоящий же мужик!
Гудбай, Америка, ооо.................................

Всемзапоздалый привет и запоздалые поздравления со всеми запоздалыми праздниками.

Привет!
Я вот тут за тебя голосую - голосую, а благодарности - никакой!!! Хоть бы дал похранить чего-нибудь))

Где пропала наша американская подруга дней суровых? Чего не отвечаешь?
Я жду...

Regarding movies- why not to try to explain to me- what exactly are yr prefferencies instead of saying what u like or u don't in my prefferencies. Just tell me yr likes and dislikes -as I did concerning LEBOWSKI. It will help to understand yr position and the cultural basis u r standing on.
Believe me, EVEN U)) can not control yr feelings when it comes over and if u do it - not more effective then animals do. Btw, why to control urself instead of acting like u desire (the society ate u). Why to behaive as society want you to?
Why are you proud because of the fact that you can limit yr self????? It's a reason to be sorry of.

Exactly , the rest is bullshit.
I don't know who is David (Coperfield- no?), but I am glad for u and him also. Can the words "I have zero complaints or dissatisfaction. And sex is the best I've ever had in my life" be caused by the lack of the abovementioned animalistic "attempts" in ur life?))

Yeah, I was cool. Thank you)))

Dear, believe me, I consider and relate to men according to my personal experience and not according to movies. It's so funny how you misinterpret what I say and percept it in a totally different way.
First of all I didn't compare you with Big Lebowski. I am repeating again, go back to the original statement and try to understand the line of metaphora that I use there. It has nothing to do with you in general or any of your physical or mental characteristics in particular.
Second, I thought that we agreed on the fact that you love this movie and I don't due to our own reasons and preferences. I am neither trying to tell you what movies are as deep or deeper than Big Lebowski, nor I am trying to tell you what you "don't understand too well". So let's stick to our own likes and dislikes.
I agree that big part of human being is animalistic, but what distinguishes us (or maybe at least me :)))from animal is that we can control our wishes, desires and needs, and for me this part of human personality is extremely important. I cannot control the world or the fate or the circumstances, but I can at least control my reactions to circumstances and my behavior in those circumstances. Of course, I should note here that all that I am saying and that I believe in is relative and is true only to certain extent.
Getting back to you original statement your exact words were "Так что (по собств. опыту) советую обратить внимание на интимную часть отношений (которая самая важная, все остальное-фигня)". Maybe I am misunderstanding the message that you were trying to deliver, but to me it sounds exactly like " Sex is the only important side of the relationship, the rest is fignya".
Well, now I see signs of other parts of your brains working(the ones that are not signed "Penis"):)). But for a moment there you were trying to reject existence of those parts and use only the "Penis" one.
Just a little comment: Right now I don't have problems in my relationship with David neither because of "Sex nesovmestimost'" as you call it, nor because of other aspects. I have zero complaints or dissatisfaction. And sex is the best I've ever had in my life.
But in my experience just great sex does not mean that the relationship will work. I am sorry that you are trying to deny it. But I guess this is the place you like to be the most - in denial.
PS Yeah, I remember you from that one time in Poklonova's appt. You were speculating about some stuff for half a night and than suddeny ran out of the appt. and went to visit some relative or acquaintance. Very weird, if you ask me. :))Those were my impressions.

1.As long as you will concern men's thoughts according to movie but not to yr personal experience - you will live in dreamworld.
2.How can I get ofeended when I see a person who doesn't know the matter of discussion (BIG LEBOWSKI movie) or hadn't understood it quite well (it's a little bit more complicated then Mel GIbson's movies all together ))). BTW, I can even proud to be comparised to Lebowski)))
3. WE ARE ALL primitive enought not to realize obvious things - that the animalistic is the beginning, pervonachalo.
4. I've never said that sex is the only side of relationships - but the main one and it definates all others.
5.I see no problem having one side of brain signed with "penis". Since a lot of ladies have the same sign but all over the head -PENIS)))
6. Hahahahahahaha. The most funny thing I've ever heard. I wish I were at the beginning. Nobody discuss fucking evrth that moves. But quality fucking with the person (and maybe the only person in whole life) who suits you well and who is suited by you. If you have problems in relationships- it's not because of yr "poor" feelings or bad attitude or other bullshit. It's because of yr sex nesovmestimost'.
that's all i mean.
And I like the discussion though too.
Btw we met in Poklonova app long ago-d'you remember?

nevermind

Prapor,
Just a thought. I don't think that you are as primitive and animalistic as you try to act and advertise to everybody.
As far as our discussion goes, I am neither trying to tell you to live your intimate life according to Hollywood standards nor teaching you HOW to live your intimate life. I DON'T CARE! It's you business. As far as my libido is concerned, don't be too worried, dear, it's fine and active.(haha!)
The movie that I talked about is a comedy that actually reflects the way MEN think what women think.And god forbid to take it seriously. Furthermore, it's time that you start to distinguish between sarcasm and serious statements. My metaphoric comparison with Lebowski bears highly sarcastic and teasing meaning, and ideally should have been percepted as a joke. If you got offended in any way, well, that's you problem, dear.
Our disagreement on the aspects of what is important in a relationship only prooves my point that you think with only one part of your brain that has a huge sign on it "Penis". I never said that sex is not important, moreover, what I said was that sex IS very important and healthy relationship cannot exist without it, but there are many sides to every relationship, and those sides cannot be ignored. In real life, exactly because those sides are ignored, many relationships fail.
As far as you, Prapor, are concerned I guess you are only at the beginnign of your maturity process and that's what affects your judgements. Oh well, I hope you'll be there eventually. But belive me fucking everything that moves and feeling good about yourself because of that is far from being mature person.
Been there, done that, don't want to go back.



I like our discussions though.

Привет!
1. Сам жаба.

2.А вот за то что я чего-то угадаю в Суфаке, мне заплатят денег??? или это муляж такой?

Maxik,
What's up? No movement on the site because there's nothing new. I can go and look at the sections for 10 times but after that it becomes boring. Conclusion: turn on imagination. think. Come up with something new i lyudi k tebe potyanutsya.
Btw, I left you a comment in Round Table regarding the quarrels, so you might as well go read it and react in some way. If you want.
I was pretty busy lately because of the classes and now I have two finals left next week and I am free as a bird for about a week or 10 days.
My Davie is in Spain so I am boyfriendless and sad.What's new in Ziper and Kiev? You all keep silence so it loks like everybody's dead or stoned there. Wake up!!!!
Btw, for those that know Lena Yevgrafova I am announcing that she is getting married on Dec. 22. Future husband's name is Steve.
Got question?

Да я путешествовал чуть-чуть, видел всяких хороших и не очень людей-хотя за этим далеко можно и не ездить.

А насчет жены- чувак, ну тебе должно быть виднее.
Не знаю, даже чем помочь. Позвони, что ли.

А ты подробнее про СУФАК расскажи, а то на первый взгляд звучит как болезнь какая=то нехорошая.

Пока

Ну ты блин даешь! Целый сайт себе отгрохал!